I Want My Wife To Love Me Again - 4 Ways To Make Your Wife Love You And Save Your Marriage

Published: 17th May 2010
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There are some marriages that seem to be trouble free, but those are pretty few and far between these days. When those troubles increase or are not properly handled, it can allow the love to fade away. If you are a husband thinking "I want my wife to love me again" then here are 4 ways to help save your marriage before it is too late.

Marriage does not come with a handbook, and all too often we think we can just "wing it". When a marriage starts out there is a good dose of infatuation that will fade with time; if love is not nurtured it can easily fade with the troubles and cares of life.

We all make mistakes in our marriages, what we need is to be willing to work at overcoming them. If your wife does not appear to be too interested in you anymore then you are likely to think she does not love you anymore.

If you have been saying "I want my wife to love me again" and are serious about saving your marriage then here are some ways you can do that:

First, do not be a nag. And do not make the mistake of thinking only women nag, men do to. If there are little issues that bother you, even get under your skin, learn to let them go.

A pastor I once knew used the phrase "major on the majors, minor on the minors". The key issues are where you need to spend your time, not the little stuff. That just makes for arguments and fighting, when your goal is to make your wife love you again.

Second, be a better listener. Woman really get fried when they think their husband is not listening to them, never remembers what she says. Your wife will feel that she is not important to you if you are not listening to her and paying attention when she talks.

Women think using a different process than men do so it can be an effort some times to really absorb what she is saying and appreciate her logic behind it. Look into her eyes when she speaks and find ways to show her that you did pay attention later on.

Third, refuse to argue. It takes two to argue, just do not do it. Keep your voice calm in all of your conversations with her. If you want your wife to love you again then treat her with care and respect.

Remember the point above to let the little stuff slide, than can help avoid an argument over something stupid.

Fourth, do not discuss divorce. Take that option off the table; once it is in the open it is more likely to be looked upon as a way out. If you want your wife to love you then make that your goal and the focus of your thoughts and your discussions with her.

If you mention divorce then she might think you have given up on the marriage. If your wife thinks you have given up then she will likely give up too. Instead show her that your marriage is a priority to you and so is she.

If you are serious when you say "I want my wife to love me again" then do not delay in taking action to save your marriage. I realize that the points above are easier said (or read) than done.

If you want help with the details, the key to making your wife love you again can be found at http://www.RelationshipAdviceHelp.com.

Mr. Scott has enjoyed assisting people with relationship and marriage issues for many years now. Please note that he may occasionally receive some form of compensation when recommending other experts services or products.

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